Top 6 Ways to Incredible Confidence

To progress in any way of life whether it is personal or professional we need to exhibit confidence. Without confidence it is just impossible to survive in this world. But how does confidence come, it originates from confident thinking, and results in confident action and the more you show your confidence in action the more it will increase and that is how people recognize your confidence.


Confidence is not something that which we have to bring from outside it is there within us, and it is matter of choice, to be or not to be. So, when there are more advantages on your side when you are confident why shouldn’t you be confident? Then let us look at those ways that lead to incredible confidence.

1. Being Yourself: This is the first step to increase your confidence levels, never ever try to pretend to be someone else. Be your own self and show your skills at the best.

2. Don’t Bother to Please Everyone: Confident people don’t try to look for the approval of others and don’t try to please everyone. Be what you are and be confident about it, have you ever seen a chairperson of a big industry trying to lease every one or looking to for the acceptance of every one no, they are what they are and they are confident about their ways and decisions. And if you want to be confident just do it.

3. Learn to Listen and then Respond: Confident people don’t interrupt others in between the conversation and try to make their point. They first patiently listen to what the other person has to say, analyze it and then share their opinion.


4. Show Your Agreement Nonverbally: If you want to appear confident when you agree with people don’t always say yes more times instead nod your head in agreement. Maintain a balance and use nonverbal and verbal agreement methods.

5. Never Engage Yourself in any action Which You Will Have Guilt: Confidence that comes from within and from being what you are by your behavior and character stays forever. So, never indulge yourself in any kind of activities which will make you feel ashamed and fill your life with guilt.

6. No One Knows Everything: There is no person in this world who knows everything. So when you are posed with a situation when you don’t know anything just say that you are yet to learn or yet to know about it. Other than this, make it a habit that you keep yourself updating in knowledge and skills regarding your profession, or the work you are in.

So, try out these techniques, be yourself, build confidence from within and prosper in whatever you do.

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Believe You Can! and You Can

Almost all the successful people in the world have again and again said the same thing. “If You Think You Can You Can.” Believing in one self that you are capable of fulfilling your goals and dreams is something that doesn’t come easily to everyone. It is only this one belief that is making some one into a leader and the rest followers.

I would like to give a very common example, in India it is quiet common that we see some people performing circus feats on the road as a means of earning livelihood. Some times in these shows we see small children that too girls performing feats, small girl hardly five years, climbing on the rope, balancing the stick and walking without fear.

We have children at our homes, but we can hardly imagine our children doing so. We take 101 precautions when it comes to our children, what is the difference between that child and this child, absolutely nothing God has blessed every child with same brains and physical capabilities. It is because of the belief that is installed in the child, by her parents or guide made her capable of performing at that level.

Yes, if this is true in case of a child, how much more true it holds to elders with all the knowledge of the world, this is what differentiates the leaders from the followers, the same belief system. It is always very important to keep in mind one thing that God in his mercy has blessed all humans with the same brains those who have made use of it shine and the rest, rest. Believe that successful people don’t dropout from some where they live with us like us but they dream and dare to realize those dreams. Because they know that “They can.”

So, “Think You Can and You Can”

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