Top 10 Tips to Love Yourself

We keep hearing this again and again that we need to show love towards others, our fellow creatures and other life.

But before we go on to all those things first we need to love ourselves, a person who does not love himself cannot love others. For some people loving themselves is difficult because they see only the negative side and all the short comings that are there in them.

As there are sides of the coin so there are two shades of every person, one side light and the other one dark no one is free from this when we understand this it will be easy for us to develop love for our own self. Let us learn the ways to love your own self.

1. Give your body the right treatment that it needs. It is very precious and you need to treat it that way.

2. Wear the kind of clothes that you like and are comfortable to you, eat the kind of food you love.

3. You be the source of your joy and happiness.
4. You are the only you in this entire creation, precious as what you are and how you are so live life like that.

5. Spend time daily with your own self (alone) at least for some time.

6. Do what you love and what gives you energy and motivation.

7. Look at your future think of it and work for it.

8. Follow the whispers of the heart for they are your true friends and guide for life.

9. Take the reins of your life into your own hands, and write the story of your own life and live it.

10. Always stick to the positive side of you think of it, work on it and let the other side vanish.

Unless you give love to yourself and respect yourself it is hard to gain it from others. So, first learn to love yourself then spread it to others and let your life fill with the colours of love.

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Top 10 Ways to be a Pleasing Person

In our day to day interaction with people around us we find that there are some kind of people who are very pleasing and attract lot of people towards them because of this quality. This is what everyone wants to be to be liked by everyone and to get the attention, but, how to become so? Is the question. Well, let us start looking at the answers.

1. Body language plays a very important role, the way you carry yourself, shake hands, your gestures, eye contact everything matters.

2. The kind of clothes you put on your choices also make a difference in making you a pleasing person.

3. Pleasing persons are always soft spoken and are firm when voicing their opinion.

4. Pleasing persons know very well as to what they are speaking and exercise good control over the choice of words.

5. Pleasing persons are calm and poised even when situations turn out to be hot.

6. Pleasing persons are not self centered and they bother about the growth and progress of others.

7. Pleasing people make it a habit to smile always and their facial expressions are pleasing and encouraging.

8. Pleasing people are the ones with great enthusiasm. They are never dull or inactive.

9. Pleasing people are the ones with great inner strength and possess qualities like honesty.

10. Pleasing people have charm that draws people towards them.

So, if you are up to becoming one like them and enjoy all the attention, fill yourself with all these qualities.

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What Makes a Good Person?

To be good is what we all want to be, and we also want to interact and to have relations only with those who are good. But when it comes to recognizing good people we land up in confusion. How to recognize a good person and what makes a good person? Let us know those points.

First quality of a good person is that he is not influenced by the decisions of others he makes his decisions and sticks to them. He is intelligent enough to know what is good and what is not. A good person has the ability to recognize the value of the other person. He appreciates the positive traits and skills of the other person, and even expresses and shows them to the other person.

A good person has a purpose and a goal, he knows what he is doing and where he is going, he has a vision and walks along the path towards progress. He is responsible, not only towards himself but towards others and exhibits self control. A good person shows concern about others and takes interest in the things that others do, participates with them, encourages them and appreciates them.

A good person spends time with people; he is there with people in their ups and downs. A good person has respect for other peoples thinking, emotions and feelings. He does not try to manipulate people; he gives freedom to people, to be their own self. He believes and trusts others and relies on them.

A good person, respects and obeys his parents, he cares for them and loves them. He is also respectful and dignified in his behavior towards women. Another sign of a good person is that he is balanced in his life in all the ups and downs and he doesn’t try to run away from life’s challenges he stands erect and faces them.

A good person is committed to achieve his goals and has adaptability to change himself according to the situations in life. He has right thinking and is committed not only to the work but also to people. If we are able to adapt these or any of these qualities we have begun our journey to become good and when we come across such a person respect him, love him and try to be like him.

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