SOS Children Village’s Rakesh Jinsi joins School of Inspired Leadership

The School of Inspired Leadership (SOIL), Gurgaon announced the appointment of industry veteran Mr. Rakesh Jinsi as the President of the school. Mr. Jinsi, who was last associated with SOS Children’s Villages of India, has over 37 years of corporate experience with a significant amount of time spent in the Not for Profit Sector. His appointment marks another important step by SOIL to recruit industry veterans that conform to the school’s ideals of ‘Character, Competence and Enthusiasm’; bridge the gap between industry and academia as well as promote an education model that hinges on the ‘right’ attitude along with aptitude.

Announcing his appointment, Mr. Anil Sachdev, Founder & CEO, SOIL, said, “We are delighted and privileged to have Rakesh Jinsi as the newest addition to the SOIL family. He comes with a wealth of experience and will be able to add immense value from his involvement in the not-for-profit sector as well as someone who has created and led successful teams in diverse industries. An accomplished professional, we are confident that he will play an important role in helping us take the school to newer heights.”

Mr. Jinsi’s experience lies in engineering-Automobile industry and the Non-profit sector. Over a long and celebrated career, he has worked with leading organizations such as Eicher Group, Hero Motors, Force Motors, Tatra Vectra Motors India, and New Holland FIAT India among others. He was a member of National Human Rights Commission and is the member of Proposal Approval Committee of National Skill Development Corporation (NSDC). He also serves on the Board of organizations such as FAG Bearings India Ltd, Hero Motors Ltd etc. Speaking on his appointment, Mr. Rakesh Jinsi, President, SOIL, said, “I am happy to be part of the SOIL family. I really believe that there is an urgent need to restore balance in the higher education space as we seem to be over-emphasizing commercial success. I hope to contribute to the positive energy that the school drives. While we will teach young eager minds the finer nuances of management, our focus will remain on building character and instilling values such as integrity and leadership.”

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But … I Wish I could… Turn Back Time…

By G.Gayathri

Beautiful song by Backstreet Boys. Every person at least once in his life time would have thought this, I wish I could turn back time, it may seem impossible but I wish I could, and life will never be the same.

Usually this kind of thinking and thoughts come to our mind when we are not happy with our present state of mind and life. It is only then that we start looking back into our past searching for the right times and the good or happy times. Or to put it in a better way we want to take a corrective action so that our life would change its direction for betterment.

But we can only do that in imagination but not in reality. There is definitely one-thing in our hands that we can do make our life better and to feel happy in the situation that we are in.

That is to imagine our life from the point of view of future. Imagine yourself standing ahead in life five years or ten years from now, from that point of time if you think of today, how would you lead your life?

What changes do you want to make in yourself and in your life style? What kind of decisions would you take, and how would you utilize the time that you have at present in your hands?

If we try to forget our past, live in the present and think about our future life would always be full of hope and positivity, because it lies in your hands to create your future by acting in the right way now.

So it definitely makes sense to live in the present and to lay a good foundation for our future instead of pondering over I could have or I should have.

All the wise men of the world have said that real wisdom lies in living life as if you are going to die the next moment. Yes that is real living, living life each and every moment with no regrets or tensions because who knows may be this is the last moment and we are no fools to spend it crying or feeling tensed.

Right, so if you are a seeker of happiness and peace and want to live life full and complete, forget the past because it has already passed and has no existence and live this moment full and if possible think good and positively about the future because it makes sense to do so.

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Safety in Closed Doors and Closed Hearts?

We feel safe in the closed door of our room or closed door of our house, we feel even safer in the four walls and the boundary of our house.

We have a sense of security when we are with our own family and when some unknown person comes we are afraid.

 If we are left in an open place we become afraid we don’t feel secure. What is this safety that we are seeking in the closedness?


We are afraid of talking openly, we don’t want to open our heart and be plain and simple in our day to day interactions with others. Why? Because we don’t want to get hurt or we don’t want to get used by others, or even more valid reason because in that way things don’t happen in today’s world.

Knowingly or unknowingly we feel secure and safe when we build boundaries and walls around ourselves, whether it is a house or a heart.

We don’t want anyone to penetrate and share our space. Till the time there was only earth there was only the difference of races human and animal, there was only one race human race and every one lived together happily.



But as soon as people started building boundaries and boarders separation of people and separation of hearts started. My country, your country, my state your state, my language your language, my culture and your culture and the list is unending.

In earlier days people used to find safety and security living together and helping each other. Now a days we find it secure and safe in isolation and separation, whether it is humans or states or countries.


There is a huge difference in the times then and now and in the attitude of the people then and know. The lifestyle that we lead and the money race that we are in has hardened our hearts and made us seek safety and security in closeness, instead of being open, we are no longer free, we have imprisoned our bodies in the four walls and we have imprisoned our hearts in unseen walls.


But we have to realize the fact that real life lies behind those closed doors of our hearts and our houses. And the day we open our eyes to this fact and we open the doors of our heart, sunshine comes in throwing away all the darkness and bringing in new life.

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Smile A Rare Commodity in Today’s World

By G. Gayathri

We keep hearing about the scarcity of water, food and other things above all these things there is a severe scarcity of the unseen but most precious and important things in today’s life and world those are, smile, peace of mind and happiness. Most of the times we see only long faces, and rarely a smiling and pleasant and peaceful face.

Yes, every one born as human in this earth thrives only for these things, but today man’s priorities have changed and so these unseen and most valuable and essential things have become a rare commodity. Among all the creatures that God has created only humans can smile. But still we find it hard to do it even once a day.

Marketing people stick smile on their faces because they cannot accomplish anything without that. A child smiles because that is his nature and he needs no reason or need to do that. Most of the times we stick a smile on our face only when we have to or need to, but when was the last time we smiled because we genuinely felt like smiling.

There is definitely one thing that is true that if we need reasons to smile and reasons to feel happy that is a rare thing to happen. Because life is a road with many twists and turns and it is always not possible that you are blessed with that situations and the kind of people that make you happy and make you smile.

But there is definitely one thing we can do that is to genuinely try to be happy and to genuinely try to smile because only fools can wait for the right time and the right reason to smile and to be happy. Even the research has proved that if you practice or keep smiling many times in a day you will naturally feel happy and positive, though it is not natural, what we usually do is we smile when we are happy or very peaceful. But if you want to be happy and peaceful keep smiling, this is what the research says.

So, don’t wait for the right situation or the right time to smile, keep smiling and things will turn out to be right.

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Top 10 Tips to Love Yourself

We keep hearing this again and again that we need to show love towards others, our fellow creatures and other life.

But before we go on to all those things first we need to love ourselves, a person who does not love himself cannot love others. For some people loving themselves is difficult because they see only the negative side and all the short comings that are there in them.

As there are sides of the coin so there are two shades of every person, one side light and the other one dark no one is free from this when we understand this it will be easy for us to develop love for our own self. Let us learn the ways to love your own self.

1. Give your body the right treatment that it needs. It is very precious and you need to treat it that way.

2. Wear the kind of clothes that you like and are comfortable to you, eat the kind of food you love.

3. You be the source of your joy and happiness.
4. You are the only you in this entire creation, precious as what you are and how you are so live life like that.

5. Spend time daily with your own self (alone) at least for some time.

6. Do what you love and what gives you energy and motivation.

7. Look at your future think of it and work for it.

8. Follow the whispers of the heart for they are your true friends and guide for life.

9. Take the reins of your life into your own hands, and write the story of your own life and live it.

10. Always stick to the positive side of you think of it, work on it and let the other side vanish.

Unless you give love to yourself and respect yourself it is hard to gain it from others. So, first learn to love yourself then spread it to others and let your life fill with the colours of love.

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Small is the Secret to Big Success

Small is the Secret to Big Success

If you are told that you have to stop consuming soft drinks for the rest of your life, you will not be motivated to follow that. But, if you were told to stop consuming soft drinks just for an hour, or for a day you will do it happily.

If you were told that you have to wake up early in the morning just for today no problems you do it. But if you were told to follow it the rest of your life, you will pay a deaf ear to it. This is the same thing that applies to success.

We make plans to change our habits and to work towards our goal but when the bigger or long term picture comes to mind fear takes us over and we stop taking action.

But the same thing when we divide into small portions, small goals to achieve in a day or in a week it seem easy and we do it with ease.

If you want to be successful in anything that you do you have to follow the same principle.

If I tell you that you have to make a million in so many days you become afraid, the same thing if I divide it into small portions and tell you to earn so many dollars in a week or in a month you will do it.

So, whenever you want to achieve a goal or want to make changes in your habits break them into small achievable goals and achieve them.

It is the small steps that you take that begin your journey towards success. So, make a beginning by taking small steps and achieving small goals.

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Materialistic Life Not Good for You

Research Says: It’s not good to lead ‘only’ Materialistic Life

What describes a materialistic person? Always thinking of material things, properties, wealth, cash, gold, vehicles, and the list is just unlimited. Today he buys the best model car, tomorrow there is another one out and he is after it. There is no place for the word contentment in the dictionary of a materialistic person.

One desire fulfilled another one takes it place, one wish materializes another one comes up and the wheel goes on and on. So, frankly speaking a person running after the things in the world can never lead a peaceful and contended life. This is what all the spiritual persons of the world since ages have been teaching us but now research has proved this fact that those persons who are purely leading materialistic life can never lead a happy and satisfied life, reasons are.

Materialistic people always see what they lack and what they want to have, so they are never happy with, and are grateful for, what they have in life, this leads to lack of satisfaction and depression in life. On the other hand those people who are grateful for what they have and lead a life filled with gratitude have a positive outlook towards life and are likely to be more satisfied and happy with their life.
It is as simple as looking at a half filled glass, one person sees that it is half full and is happy about the fact and the other one looks that it is half empty and is depressed about it. It is not correct either to completely lead a materialistic life and to avoid spiritual life and to lead a completely spiritual life leaving materialistic life. When we learn how to strike a balance between both, then we will be able to lead a complete and meaningful life.



So, want to lead a happy and satisfied life? Then don’t lead ‘just’ materialistic life.

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Positive Attitude towards Work

Positive attitude is one thing that you definitely need to have if you want to have a great and successful career. At all working places there will always be people who will find faults with the work place and peers. They spend most of their time in gossiping and spreading negativity at work place. Such people are not productive and do damage to themselves and to work atmosphere.

At work place there will always be challenges that you need to overcome and move ahead. But instead of looking at the things that are negative and are obstacles in your path, look for solutions towards those problems and work on them. If you want to prosper in work you always need to look for things that are positive about work, about your peers and your boss.

No one is perfect in this world not even you, so why expect it from others. If you think there are some problems at work place play a positive part and see how you can reduce them and make the atmosphere right. Do your part always keep smiling if you are not used to doing so practice it and you will feel better and others also.

When there is a problem look for a solution. Try to be professional in your approach towards work rather than personal. Give priority to work and professionalism, do your job well and contribute towards making others job easy. Always try to talk good things and positive things. Keep aside the designations and status and respect every one. This will help in a long way.

There are many people in the world who are unable to find work. You are blessed to have a job and a work place. Love the work you put your heart and soul into it and give your best. If you have a work for cheque attitude you will never be able to prosper. Instead look for all the good things in the work and you will get back good and prosperous career.

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What is the Need of the Hour Preachers or Practitioners?

People most of the times know that they are doing something that they should not be doing. If we take the example from epics Ravana was a great scholar and possessed great knowledge, but what did he do with himself after acquiring the knowledge? One act of temptation ruined him and his entire kingdom.

Even in today’s time we have so many resources to teach us what is good and what is bad. We have books written by scholars, we have mentors, we have religious persons and preachers who show the path of righteousness. We don’t lack the knowledge of what is right and wrong, but we lack implementation.

Every one in the world follows a religion or a path of truth that teaches him how to mould his life for betterment. Everyone in the world is blessed with parents who show them 'what is right and wrong'. Everyone goes to school and educates himself so that he moulds himself into a human.

Then why are we like this even if we listen to any one of the persons who are there to guide us or even follow one aspect of what we have learnt from our elders or gurus or from teachers our lives would be different. If we cannot put into practice that which we have learnt there is no use of accumulating knowledge.

If there would be half the number of practitioners of what is right, than the preachers of truth, our world will not be like this. We have enough resources to show us the way, and enough people to guide us, but what we need is courage to implement what we have learnt. If every one of us pulls up the courage to practice instead of preach this world would be changed. So, need of the hour is practitioners, not really preachers.

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Top 10 Ways to be a Pleasing Person

In our day to day interaction with people around us we find that there are some kind of people who are very pleasing and attract lot of people towards them because of this quality. This is what everyone wants to be to be liked by everyone and to get the attention, but, how to become so? Is the question. Well, let us start looking at the answers.

1. Body language plays a very important role, the way you carry yourself, shake hands, your gestures, eye contact everything matters.

2. The kind of clothes you put on your choices also make a difference in making you a pleasing person.

3. Pleasing persons are always soft spoken and are firm when voicing their opinion.

4. Pleasing persons know very well as to what they are speaking and exercise good control over the choice of words.

5. Pleasing persons are calm and poised even when situations turn out to be hot.

6. Pleasing persons are not self centered and they bother about the growth and progress of others.

7. Pleasing people make it a habit to smile always and their facial expressions are pleasing and encouraging.

8. Pleasing people are the ones with great enthusiasm. They are never dull or inactive.

9. Pleasing people are the ones with great inner strength and possess qualities like honesty.

10. Pleasing people have charm that draws people towards them.

So, if you are up to becoming one like them and enjoy all the attention, fill yourself with all these qualities.

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Top 5 Ways to Handle Criticism

Criticism is one thing that is unavoidable in life. People criticize you if you do something, or if you don’t do anything or if you do something that no one does. The mistake we do is to think that only useless people and people with empty minds are the ones to be criticized.

But if you take a look at the history all the so called genius of the world and leaders in their fields we the people who were most criticized, people called them mad and insane, what not but it is only those who [paid no attention to them and believed in what they thought was right were the ones who were successful.

So, criticism, is not what matters, what matters is how you react to it, take or leave it and move ahead to see success. So, let us look at some of the ways that will help us to handle criticism in a way that will help us to progress.

1. Know the intention behind the criticism, some people criticize because it’s their nature, some because it gives them happiness, and some people criticize you so that you can learn from mistakes. So, know the intention and leave the criticism.

2. Don’t give it back to them. It is but natural for us to defend ourselves when we are criticized for no reason or not for a valid reason. But doing so will give strength to those who criticize us and drag us down to their level so, better to hold yourself back.

3. The best way to handle criticism is to respond calmly. Listen to them and then once they cool down tell them how you feel about it.

4. If there a fault of yours and others criticize you, accept it and tell that you have got their point and would correct yourself.

5. The best way to handle criticism is to have self confidence. If you know what you are and what you are doing other peoples comments and criticisms do not bother you. So, focus on increasing your self confidence.

There is other side of criticism that it helps you to know your faults and gives you a chance to correct them. This happens when the people who criticize you are our well wishers or the ones who are bothered about your welfare. In such cases criticism helps us to progress and to go ahead. So, know the intention behind criticism and then accordingly take it or leave, but keep moving ahead.

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Top 5 Tips to Deal With the Un Expected

Each individual’s life is not less than a suspense thriller. Day in and out we see so many unexpected events happening around us, some to us and some to someone else, that we are just left with shock and surprise. Most of the times we do not even know what to do and how to deal with the situation.

No one knows exactly what surprises life has in store for us, so there is a need for us to know the ways as to how to deal with surprises that life gives us. All is well as long as our routine is going undisturbed, but suddenly we hear news that someone close to us had an accident or lost his life, or we lost our job, or there was a theft and all valuables and savings are lost.

These are just some of the many shocks or surprises, these are major and life changing where as the ones we encounter on a daily basis are minor. But it is always good to prepare yourself ahead if by any chance you need to encounter such a situation. It may not happen to you but if you find someone facing such a situation and you happen to be there if you are prepared you can help them. So, let us look at some of the ways to deal with life’s surprises.

1. Change is the only constant thing in life, and we need to accept this fact, the better we understand and digest this fact the easier life will become. So, when ever some unexpected event happens first accept the reality, only then you will be able to work out a solution.

2. Sometimes blessings come in disguise, what is now a shocking event or failure may benefit you in some other way. When such a situation arises look for something positive in it may be you have a lesson to earn may be you an inspiration to draw. If you think this way it will be easy for you to handle the situation.

3. Before you react to the unexpected situation in any way first calm down, try to analyze the situation and then think about how it will affect you and if it does, work out on a solution.

4. When you know that there is absolutely nothing in your hands that you can do about what has happened. Try to digest the fact, then instead of getting worried, think about future and how you would mould it.

5. Try to gain control over yourself and focus on increasing your inner strength, self control and will power are the things that will help you in difficult times, and to achieve these start practicing meditation.

Frankly speaking life itself each and every moment is unexpected because all that you know is what you are doing now in this moment; the next moment is not in your hands. So, prepare and move ahead.

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Top 5 Tips for Self Development

Now a day’s more and more number of people are showing interest in self development and it is something which is limit less. The more you develop the more you will find the need to change yourself for betterment and to develop more. So, the process is never ending, but the earlier you start with the process the more easy life would become and more progress you would be able to make.

The process of self development starts with the process of changing our inner self. Because no matter how many books we read and how many lecture we hear, until and unless we start implementing them there is no use of all the accumulated knowledge. So, how do we go about it let us check it out.


1. First and for most thing in self development is that you need to overcome resistance not from anyone else but from our own self. Because all these years we have dumped ourselves with undesirable habits and routine and now when we find that there is need for change our previous habits pull us down, which we need to overcome.


2. We need to learn from our surroundings and the people we interact with. Nobody is perfect in this world and there is both negative and positive side of every one take the positive traits and make a note of negative qualities, check if you have them and try to remove those qualities.

3. Check your body language and pay attention to your voice modulation. Observe when and why people talk or behave in some way as they do and see the results. Observe your own self, the way you interact and what results it is yielding.

4. The more you read and the more you gain knowledge the more you will grow and increase your efforts towards self development, so, make it a part of your routine to read a book on self development or auto biographies of great leaders.

5. Have a role model or a mentor when you have someone to guide you progress in any path becomes easy because all you have to do is follow what they say do.

If we lead life the same way as we are used to without any progress and development life loses its meaning. So, self development is something we all need to think about and focus.

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Top 5 Practical Tips to Strengthen Will Power

Before we discuss anything we need to know what will power is. Will power is nothing but knowing what is good for you physically and mentally and then continuously following only that path without getting influenced by temptations, so that you can achieve your goal.

All of us know the importance exercising will power in our life, but we find it hard when it comes to implementation part. The only difference between those who exercise will power and those who do not is that, those persons with will power achieve success in personal and professional life, and those who do not end up as failures.

You goal may be anything in life and you may stand where ever you are now, but if you strengthen your will, you are sure to see desired results. So, let us get down to the point and see the ways to strengthen will.

1. Stop postponing and start acting, if you have been planning from a long while to wake up and go for a walk in the morning, but every time the alarm goes off, you switch it off and go into your blanket. Stop doing that, and start going out when the alarm goes off.




2. Overcome conflict and win over temptation. Every time you are about to exercise will power you will find that there will be a conflict within you, the lower self dragging you down and asking you to do that which is tempting and is pleasurable and the higher self which warns you and in spite of your disliking asks you to stick to what is right and beneficial. Follow your higher self, whenever there is a conflict.

3. When you know you have to do the work, but you don’t feel like doing it now and instead want to spend time otherwise, in that moment itself get up from where you are and start doing the work.

4. To strengthen the will start making the small changes in your daily routine. If you are addicted to watching television daily, start by reducing the number of hours. If you have the habit of eating excess, start eating a balanced and required portion for the next ten days.

5. Whenever you are posed with a situation where in you have a choice to choose what gives pleasure and what is beneficial, let that which is beneficial to you be your choice. Every time by choosing what is beneficial you strengthen your will.

So, in any given situation look for the long term benefits if you exercise your will, instead of giving up for short term pleasures. When you keep this in your mind and start making choices, you will strengthen your will.

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Enjoy What You Have But Aspire to Enhance

It has been a proven theory that contentment is the basic requirement to lead a peaceful and happy life. Because, until and unless you put a full stop to your list of goals and desires your running behind them will not stop and in the process of achieving them you lose the enjoyment of what you have now.

There is also another well proven fact that, until there is aspiration or desire there is no progress. Even in case of spirituality only when you have set a goal and work towards achieving it you have progress, otherwise you remain where you are.


So, which is good, to be contended with what we have or to aspire for more and to be a part of race that knows no end.

Well the secret is to strike a balance between the both, and lead a peaceful life enjoying all the things that are there now and to keep working for those that you are yet to achieve so that you keep progressing.

If your discontentment is for your betterment and for the betterment of the others it is good to be discontent. If you are unhappy about the way things are and aspire to change them and give a new direction it is good to be discontent.

Big people, successful people, great leaders of all times, they aspired for more and did not stop working progressing.

So, cherish and enjoy what you are blessed with now do not have any complaints about them. Think that whatever you are and how ever you are it is because of a reason and for your own betterment. Then aspire to become that which you want to and accepting the present things put your foot towards the future.

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Affirmations and Their Benefits

Affirmations are positive statements modeled for a specific outcome, and which are repeated again and again until they are imprinted in our mind and the desired result is achieved. Knowingly or unknowingly we all give affirmations to ourselves, but most of the times the negative ones.

Say, I am not good at this, I cannot do this, I have such problems, and our mind accepts those statements to be true and those same words and affirmations that we give to our mind manifest as real life situations. There are some more statements that are given to us by others, you are not worth it, you cannot accomplish this, all these are again negative affirmations, and if we empower them by thinking about them then, you manifest them.

So, if you want to see positive outcome in your life you have to pay attention to your affirmations. When doing a work are you affirming to yourself that yes I can do this I blessed with all the skills and will see success. Or are you discouraging and demotivating yourself by saying that I cannot do this. Both the cases affirmation works but one for a positive outcome and for your benefit and the other against you and give negative results.

Our mind is like a computer, if we need to achieve specific and desired positive result, we need to program it accordingly. You give positive affirmations and suggestions you get positive result, and you feed it with the negative ones you get the same result. So, first you need to gain control over your thoughts and then need to rearrange them according to the result that you desire.

These affirmations if used repeatedly, regularly and with focus and faith they have the capability of changing your life forever. Because they influence your subconscious mind and thus transform you in every way. To get the best results out of affirmations, you need to keep up the positive thinking about the desired result throughout the day, because if you give positive affirmations for 5 minutes and then rest of the hours during day you keep yourself occupied with negative affirmations it’s not going to work. It’s like taking 5 steps for word and walking backwards rest of the time.

So, consistent positive thinking and continuous positive affirmations are absolutely necessary to lead a successful and happy life.

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What Makes a Good Person?

To be good is what we all want to be, and we also want to interact and to have relations only with those who are good. But when it comes to recognizing good people we land up in confusion. How to recognize a good person and what makes a good person? Let us know those points.

First quality of a good person is that he is not influenced by the decisions of others he makes his decisions and sticks to them. He is intelligent enough to know what is good and what is not. A good person has the ability to recognize the value of the other person. He appreciates the positive traits and skills of the other person, and even expresses and shows them to the other person.

A good person has a purpose and a goal, he knows what he is doing and where he is going, he has a vision and walks along the path towards progress. He is responsible, not only towards himself but towards others and exhibits self control. A good person shows concern about others and takes interest in the things that others do, participates with them, encourages them and appreciates them.

A good person spends time with people; he is there with people in their ups and downs. A good person has respect for other peoples thinking, emotions and feelings. He does not try to manipulate people; he gives freedom to people, to be their own self. He believes and trusts others and relies on them.

A good person, respects and obeys his parents, he cares for them and loves them. He is also respectful and dignified in his behavior towards women. Another sign of a good person is that he is balanced in his life in all the ups and downs and he doesn’t try to run away from life’s challenges he stands erect and faces them.

A good person is committed to achieve his goals and has adaptability to change himself according to the situations in life. He has right thinking and is committed not only to the work but also to people. If we are able to adapt these or any of these qualities we have begun our journey to become good and when we come across such a person respect him, love him and try to be like him.

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Ways to Detect and Handle Manipulative People

Manipulation is basically, emotional exploitation of the other person, with intentions take control of other person, to seize his powers and to benefit from him at his expense. This is certainly not the right thing to happen to anyone. But in today’s time we find more such people, whose intentions are only to make use of the other person for the benefit of the self.

If there is definitely something we can do about this, it is to gain knowledge about such persons about their characteristics and to safeguard ourselves and our loved ones from such persons. Let us have a look at those characteristics.






Majority of the manipulative people have the common characteristics.



1. These people very well know the ways to find out other person’s weaknesses.

2. After they detect your weakness they use it against you to weaken you and to strengthen themselves.



3. They make the other person sacrifice his/her own personal preferences and interests, and make him/her work for their benefit.


4. Once they gain success in manipulating the other person, then they never stop exploiting them until and unless the other person becomes aware of this and decides to put a full stop.

Once you detect such a person, you can take certain measures to protect yourself from them, let us have a look at them.

1. The first and the foremost is to remember your basic rights as human. As long as, one does not harm others he has every right to protect himself and his basic rights. You are in charge if your life not the other person, remember this.

2. Manipulative people act differently with every person and in every situation. They show extremes in behavior, being polite with one and rude to other and much such behavioral opposition. So, as far as possible avoid them, if it is not possible in such cases maintain a distance.

3. Manipulative people’s main intention is to make you feel low so that you can surrender to them and do whatever they say. In such a situation see if the relationship is one sided or give and take. If it is not from both sides and you are the one to change yourself and surrender yourself every time it’s time for reality check.

4. Don’t just agree to whatever such person says if you think something is wrong question back and allow them to introspect.

5. Manipulative people also always insist on instantly giving your opinion or decision and will not give you time to think. In such cases pass away the situation by telling them that you will think about it.

These are just some of the techniques that you can use to protect yourself and safeguard your interests from manipulative people. So, go ahead and stand up for your rights and live your life.

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Top 4 Ways to Earn a Big Pay Cheque

We can never say that wealth is everything in life, but it does play a very important role in making our life easy. We all work hard day and night spending more time in the office, than with our loved ones at home, for what? Just to make sure we secure wealth and to make our loved ones future secure.


But we know that fact that earning big amounts of money is not that easy as it sounds. But we can’t help wondering why some people are more successful in earning more, with the same capabilities and skills as we have, and we remain where we are. Well if we carefully study what is it that they are doing that makes them wealthy, and even we start doing it, then we can also become wealthy. Let us look at those points.

1. Become a Master: People don’t get paid more, just like that they have certain skills and expertise that makes them master in their field of work and so they get paid for it. So if your aim is to manifest wealth, look into yourself what can you master?

2. Sharpen Your Axe: Once you identify your area of mastery, concentrate and focus on improving and sharpening those skills. Do whatever it takes to be an expert in it, read more gain knowledge, practice have your hands on it and gain expertise. If you should be paid more than others than you should deliver that which other are not able to deliver.
3. First Create Wealth in Your Mind: You can manifest anything outside until you have first manifested it in the mind. Yes every action is a result of thought and if it is action that leads to more income, first you should have thoughts about wealth or more income in the mind. So, have thoughts of wealth in your mind and nurture them.


4. Have Confidence: Have confidence in your skill, in your expertise and above all have faith that you deserve to be wealthy, or deserve to earn more. Because you have made yourself deserving by working on those areas and if you are expecting high returns, it is because you are delivering more or may be the best.

So, working hard is not enough, work smart, gain more skills, knowledge, expertise, focus your thoughts on wealth and see how you will not get more income.

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Top 5 Success Lessons

If there is anything in the world that every human being craves for it is success. People want to succeed in everything they do, and it is the hope of success, that makes people progress in life. Desire to succeed is what drives people to work hard and smart and it is success that makes one person above the other.

But it is not enough to have dreams, you should learn and accumulate all the knowledge that will help you to make progress towards success and start acting on it. Let us look at the factors that contribute towards success.

1. Plan your day: Planning is very important if you want to achieve success, make a list of your activities, prioritize and then see how much time are you able to spend towards achieving your goal, this will help you to make progress towards achieving success.

 
2. Start Acting on Action Plan: It is not enough if you put in writing all your goals. You need to keep working on them even a bit a day, only then you will be able to reach your goal.

3. Have Big Goals: It is thinking big that differentiates the successful people from the others. Successful people aim big and never hesitate to have big goals, their thinking is big their goals are big and their action part is also big. So don’t ever hesitate to think high and big.

 
4. Expect Difficulties: The road to success is not an easy path, expect difficulties and hurdles prepare yourself physically and mentally and maintain balance and then it would be easy for you to overcome problems and to reach your goal.

5. Lead a Balanced Life: Balance is the essence of life, balance in thought and balance in action. So, always try to strike balance eat balanced and healthy food, exercise, read good literature that motivates you and encourages you. Maintain a balance in physical and mental activity.

Following these lessons and implementing them will help you to achieve success in your desired field.

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