Top 5 Tips to Deal With the Un Expected

Each individual’s life is not less than a suspense thriller. Day in and out we see so many unexpected events happening around us, some to us and some to someone else, that we are just left with shock and surprise. Most of the times we do not even know what to do and how to deal with the situation.

No one knows exactly what surprises life has in store for us, so there is a need for us to know the ways as to how to deal with surprises that life gives us. All is well as long as our routine is going undisturbed, but suddenly we hear news that someone close to us had an accident or lost his life, or we lost our job, or there was a theft and all valuables and savings are lost.

These are just some of the many shocks or surprises, these are major and life changing where as the ones we encounter on a daily basis are minor. But it is always good to prepare yourself ahead if by any chance you need to encounter such a situation. It may not happen to you but if you find someone facing such a situation and you happen to be there if you are prepared you can help them. So, let us look at some of the ways to deal with life’s surprises.

1. Change is the only constant thing in life, and we need to accept this fact, the better we understand and digest this fact the easier life will become. So, when ever some unexpected event happens first accept the reality, only then you will be able to work out a solution.

2. Sometimes blessings come in disguise, what is now a shocking event or failure may benefit you in some other way. When such a situation arises look for something positive in it may be you have a lesson to earn may be you an inspiration to draw. If you think this way it will be easy for you to handle the situation.

3. Before you react to the unexpected situation in any way first calm down, try to analyze the situation and then think about how it will affect you and if it does, work out on a solution.

4. When you know that there is absolutely nothing in your hands that you can do about what has happened. Try to digest the fact, then instead of getting worried, think about future and how you would mould it.

5. Try to gain control over yourself and focus on increasing your inner strength, self control and will power are the things that will help you in difficult times, and to achieve these start practicing meditation.

Frankly speaking life itself each and every moment is unexpected because all that you know is what you are doing now in this moment; the next moment is not in your hands. So, prepare and move ahead.

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Seven useful lessons for Life

Life is journey where we go through so many ways some smooth, some hard, some rocky, hardly aware of what awaits us at the next turn, full of adventure and surprise. And in this journey time will teach us some valuable lessons which we need to learn to run our life smoothly. Some people are smart enough to learn these lessons by seeing others life hearing them and reading about them and some like experimenting with their own lives.

No one’s life is same nor situations and lessons learned, but there are some common things that every one of us needs to know about life. Below mentioned are some of the very important lessons that many great people and successful people have learned in life and have passed them on to us so that we can make our life easy, by learning from them. Let us look at those very important lessons.

1) No one is perfect in this world, everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses, so if you want to lead a happy life always look for what is good in others.

2) Always try to increase the number of friends and if possible never try to make enemies with anyone.

3) Don’t talk money matters with people. If you have, don’t talk; if you don’t have, also don’t talk.

4) Keep your feet on the ground; it is good to have dreams and keep working till you achieve them, but never miss out on reality.

5) As you receive from others make sure that you also give back to others. Either love or gifts or just anything; it should be a two way process. Don’t just spend your life taking from people. Try to experience the joy in giving.

6) Life slips out of our hand just like that even before you know. So try to spend in peace and happiness each moment. Don’t waste time thinking of past or future. Live in present and let others live the moment with you.

7) Above everything else keep your faith in God and lead life in the way he intended you to live. If there is one eternal companion in our life, it is God himself. So never ever leave him; always love him for everything that he has blessed you with.

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When can you give your Best?

Many people keep wondering how to give their best, in work. First to give your best you should know what you want to achieve, what are your goals or dreams that you want to fulfill. You should find out your definition for success and then go for it and give it your best shot. Once when you are clear as to what you want to be or achieve then your focus should be on how to give the best of you to achieve what you want to.

You can give out the best when you are at peace with yourself. With all the negative and destructive feelings like anger, jealousy, doubt, guilt, fear you will never be able to give the best of you to whatever job you under take. So it is very important that you have inner peace and stability to go towards your goal.

Human Body is the most sophisticated machine on earth, provided you know how to use it to get the best out of it. To give your best to work it is very important to be fit and active at both levels physical and mental. So, if you want to move towards your goal and achieve it, you should know that both your mind and body are very important and valuable tools at your disposal and should know how to take care and get the best out of them.

Healthy relationships are very important for any ones success. When one has sufficient love and affection in life, it gives lot of moral strength to the person. The thought itself that there are people who love me and are there to lend there shoulders when I need is a great blessing in life. To have all this you should pay enough attention to your relations and give time to nurture them.

To give the best of you, you should always be clear and confident about your purpose in life. What you want out of your life, and that reason should be big enough that you have the feeling inside that yes this reason is worth living for and giving my best. Find such a purpose of your life and then see what you can make out of your life. People who feel that life has no purpose and meaning can hardly achieve anything in life.

So, pay attention to these things and move ahead on the road of success.

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A New Definition for Service and Help

There was a time when the meaning of service and help was focused on others. But now with the changing times, the definition of service and help has changed.

The focus has shifted from others to self, today we say I give my services to the company and I get paid for my services, you go to a restaurant and there it is written self help.

Is this a change in the meaning of the words or the change in the mind set of the people? Is this a representation of the people belonging to the New World, whose focus is entirely on the self?

Help and Service are the words that have changes many people’s lives; these are the words that are a source of inspiration to many.

Help and service are the words that have given a direction to the life of many people and evolved them to the divine level from mere humans.

There is nothing wrong in using these words for the self, but we should not get drowned in this so deeply that we are on our way of forgetting its original meaning.

Let us try to shift our focus from the self, a bit, to our fellow beings and life. Let us at least once in a while, remember the true meaning of the words “Help and Service” and try to put into practice in our life.

We are leading a life in the changing world, changing time; we are surrounded by people who have a new mind set and attitude. Better or worse we know better, it is always welcome and good to have an adaptive attitude, but we should not forget our roots and the truth.

Let us once again remember the true meaning of Help and Service and try to live it, because we ‘Humans’.

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